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Parental Skills: Useful or Irrelevant at Work?

September 11th, 2008 @ 1:08 pm

Categories: Diversity, Management, Motivation, Talent Management, Women in Business, Workplace

Tags: Workplace, Home Life, Recruitment & Selection, Gender And Diversity, Human Resources, Workforce Management, Joanna Higgins

In a week of surveys charting discontent from women at work, one study found that one third of women believe children can be bad for a career.

In a poll of 3,000 working mums, carried out by parents’ club Bounty, one in five believe they were effectively demoted after having a child. Over half came to the conclusion that having a baby has had a negative effect on their career. Other findings include:

  • 49 per cent claim to have missed out on promotion or other opportunities.
  • One quarter returned to the office to find they’d been replaced.
  • 21 per cent lost out on employee perks such as the company car, pensions, mobiles and laptops.
  • 26 per cent had to take a pay cut because their employer didn’t believe they’d be able to do the job.

But there are those who argue that parental skills are a positive boon for the workplace. In a letter to the FT, Regina Herzfeldt, Research Fellow at the Center for Creative Leadership in Brussels, cites research from the Center that finds home life has a positive influence on working parents’ management abilities:

 

  • Parenting skills include multi-tasking, negotiation, helping others to develop.
  • Increased self-esteem gives parents greater confidence in facing workplace challenges.
  • A happy home life helps people cope with stressful workplace issues.
  • Commitment to your role as a parent reduces stress and means you come to work creative and decisive.

It’s surprising if senior managers — often parents themselves — fail to recognise the value of a happy home life. But do you think parental skills make a difference at work?

 
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    09/15/08 | Report as spam

    RE: Parental Skills: Useful or Irrelevant at Work?

    I once had a male manager who would come to our daily team status meetings and begin each meeting complaining about the latest crisis within his family. We learned of all the horrendous things that his adopted daughters and ex-wife were doing to him. His entire day was spent overshadowed with these problems. He was emotionally and physically absent much of the time. He was going to his daughter's court dates and his own. While I was working for him he was arrested for assaulting his pregnant fifteen year old. Yikes...I left abruptly shortly after not really knowing what to do, especially since I was merely a contract employee. How could I have handled this better?

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